Media personality Toke Makinwa, has advised people going into relationship to date within their financial capability. She said, the cause of most problems in relationship is people dating partners whose lifestyles they cannot afford.
The actress and mother of one made this revelation in a recent episode of MENtality podcast, hosted by media personality Ebuka – Obi Uchendu. She noted that it’s important that people should date within their wage level as this would reduce pressure on the relationship .
Speaking further, the mother of one said; dating a man who is struggling has a big disadvantage because when the man becomes successful, he will show his true colour. He will begin to go after women that are way out of his financial league, who are materialistic.
Her words:
“I am a big believer of date within your wage and within your class. That way there will not be stories that touch. You will have a good girl at home, a girl who will even make dinner with her own money when you don’t have. Yet, some men will still want to cheat on her with a woman they can’t afford.
“Heaven forbid you end up with a guy who hasn’t blown. The day he blows that is when you will know his true personality. And that scares women. Money doesn’t change people, it just reveals who the person is. So many men are treating women who sacrificed everything for them badly,” she lamented.
